Last Updated: 2025-07-09
Okay, let's be real here... humans have genders, but clothes? Nah, they don't. Yet somehow we've convinced ourselves that men should dress one way and women totally different. Like, why are we limiting ourselves when we could just... not?
I mean, think about it - unisex clothes are basically the cheat code for getting dressed without all the drama. Anyone can throw them on without worrying about whether they're "supposed to" wear it or not. And honestly? That's pretty liberating.
The whole gender-neutral thing isn't even new - it's been bubbling up since the 60s, but whatever, let's just dive into the good stuff. Here are some pieces that have basically said "screw your gender rules" and work for everyone.
1. Baggy Jumpsuits/ Overalls
Okay, so casual jumpsuits and overalls are like... the ultimate "I woke up like this" outfit that somehow works on literally everyone. The trick is going for relaxed fits and solid colors - nothing too fancy or you'll look like you're trying too hard.
Here's the thing though - if it's skin-tight, you're gonna show every curve (which might be what you want, or not, totally your call). I usually go for neutral tones because they're foolproof and I'm lazy like that.
Pro tip I learned the hard way: show those ankles! Makes you look taller and less like you're drowning in fabric. And shoes? Boots, oxfords, or those classic Adidas everyone's obsessed with work perfectly. Don't overthink it.
2. Oversized Hoodie / Sweatshirt
Can we talk about how oversized hoodies are basically a hug you can wear? They make everyone look effortlessly cool - women get this cute boyish vibe, guys look more relaxed... it's win-win.
Black, white, gray - yeah, I know, super original right? But they work with everything and you can't really mess them up. I'm usually pairing mine with some beat-up jeans because I'm not trying to look like I stepped off a runway.
Sometimes I'll throw a trench coat over it if I'm feeling fancy (or if my mom's gonna see me). Sneakers complete the look, obviously. It's like the uniform for people who want to look put-together without actually trying.
3. Harem Pants
Okay, hear me out on this one... loose harem pants are weird but in the best way possible. They're loose enough that nobody can tell what's going on underneath, which honestly is sometimes exactly what you need.
Just skip the silk and chiffon - trust me on this. Cotton or bamboo won't betray you when you sit down or bend over. I usually pair them with something fitted up top because otherwise I look like I'm wearing a tent. A tucked-in tee or bodysuit works great.
Fun fact that nobody asked for: some guy named Paul Poiret brought these to the West in 1911 after being inspired by Middle Eastern fashion. Cool, right? Fashion history is wild.
4. Oversized Denim Shirt /Jacket
Denim shirts are like that friend who gets along with everyone - reliable, classic, never lets you down. Honestly, there's barely any difference between "men's" and "women's" versions anyway, so why stress about it?
I like wearing mine unbuttoned over a tank top or fitted tee. It's casual but looks like you made an effort (even though you didn't). Sometimes I'll try a utility jacket instead when I'm feeling adventurous... or when everything else is in the laundry.
5. Button up Shirts
Clean lines, neutral colors, not too tight, not too loose - basically the Goldilocks of shirts. They're perfect for when you need to look slightly more adult but still want to be comfortable.
The key is finding that sweet spot where you don't look like you're wearing your dad's shirt or like you're about to give a PowerPoint presentation.
6. The Stuff I Probably Should've Mentioned Earlier
White t-shirts (the good ones, not the see-through cheap ones), cargo pants if you're feeling nostalgic, decent sneakers, tote bags for carrying all your random stuff, and turtlenecks when you want to look mysterious or hide a hickey.
Brands like Uniqlo, COS and Morimiss get it - they make clothes that don't care about your gender identity, just whether you look good and feel comfortable.
The Real Talk
Look, fashion "rules" are mostly made up anyway. The best unisex pieces are just comfortable, look decent, and don't make you feel like you're wearing a costume. Cotton, denim, relaxed fits, colors that don't clash with everything you own - that's pretty much it.
Try stuff. See what works. Return what doesn't. Life's too short to worry about whether your hoodie is "supposed to" be for guys or girls.
FAQ (Because I Know You're Wondering)
Q: But what if I look weird in baggy clothes?
A: You probably don't, but if you're worried, start with one loose piece and keep everything else fitted. Like baggy jeans with a fitted top, or vice versa.
Q: Are there any colors I should avoid?
A: Nah, wear what makes you happy. Though if you're new to this, neutrals are pretty safe bets.
Q: What if people judge me?
A: They might, but they're probably too busy worrying about their own outfits to care much about yours. Plus, their opinion doesn't pay your bills, so...
Q: Where do I even shop for this stuff?
A: Honestly? The men's section sometimes has better basics, and the women's section has more variety. Just shop wherever has what you want.
Q: Can I wear this stuff to work?
A: Depends on your job, but button-ups and nice jeans work in most places. When in doubt, ask your boss or check what everyone else is wearing.
Q: What if nothing fits right?
A: Tailoring is your friend. Sometimes a $10 hem job makes a $20 shirt look like it cost $100.
Post by: Kaning
